Dear Marion, Margrit thinks you're wonderful (so do I but for different reasons). Your telephone intervention had a euphoric effect and has precipitated for her the blossoming of a new spring, even before the onset of winter. Margrit told with much enthusiasm that you had made diligent inquiry of Friends Homes at Guilford and that you now knew more about the institution than did she, moreover that you had offered to advance the $23000 entrance fee to spare Margrit the need of having to ask me for the funds. Klemens and I agreed that we should supply her with an additional 100 tablets of metronidazole 250 mg, to have available on her (hypothetical) prospective travels in the event that her diarrhea requires additional medication. I will purchase this medication from the Cosco Pharmacy in Waltham, which is closed on Sunday. I prefer to submit the prescription by telephone so as not to be required to wait when I pick it up. In order to have the metronidazole on hand, I asked for the date when she planned to leave. She couldn't remember and looked it up. On December 8, she said, without specifying a time, not to mention a flight number. I have no evidence that she's made any reservation. Her engagement calendar bears the legends: Dec 8 leave a.m.; Dec 9 arrive in Detroit; Dec 11 go to airport + spend; Dec 12 flight from Detroit. Let your imagination fill in the details: Raul Kirby will meet her at TriCities Airport on Dec. 8, drive her to the house and open the garage door for her. She will drive to the B&B in Rugby VA, quite possibly in the dark. The next morning, Dec 9, she will meet Russell Kirby, pack her clothes, ask Russell to carry them downstairs, pack suitcases, duffel bags and paper bags in the non-existent trunk space, drive off with Russell 600 miles to Detroit to arrive there on the same day. December 10 is a wasted day; nothing happens. On December 11, she goes to the Detroit airport to spend the night sleeping on the benches so that she can catch the early morning flight on Dec 12 to Florida and the Caribbean cruise. Or has she forgotten that in Konnarock she has to pack and from Konnarock be driven to Detroit - Chance of rain or snow showers 40 to 50%. Margrit's engagement calendar further bears the legend on Dec 22 - Dec 23: overdraft at m.s.u. b+b pd. I infer this to be a reference to a check on the Michigan State University Federal Credit Union to a Bed and Breakfast establishment which was not covered by available funds. I conclude that Margrit's finances are not in good order. Given her impaired mentation, I don't see how it could be otherwise. What do do? Am Anfang war die Tat. Far be it from me to instruct you, or even to suggest to you what you should discuss with Margrit, what you should say to her. Whatever it takes to keep her happy, is fine with me. If your cheerful voice could sustain her euphoria indefinitely I would use all my not inconsiderable connections to assure you a luxury apartment - or even a private villa - in Paradise. Religious conversion is not required. But please keep me informed, to the extent that your conscience permits you, of the thoughts and plans that my sister confides to you. My own strategy is as follows: Tomorrow I will pick up the metronidazole from Cosco so as to have it on hand if and when Margrit asks me to take her to the airport next Tuesday. I've changed the two appointments with patients, so that nothing will stand in the way. But I will not ask her about her plans, will not point out to her the practical impossibilities that I anticipate. There is a substantial possibility that she will forget, and that her memory loss will prevent her taking the Caribbean cruise. If she does get to Konnarock, I will have Jeane turn on the heat and the water, so that she will be warm in the house. If the oil burner continued to function, she might spend some of the winter in Konnarock. That would not be the worst resolution. I will instruct Russell Kirby, Roald Kirby and Jeane Walls, that if Margrit does not succeed in getting packed and leaving for Detroit, and does not want to stay in Konnarock, they should put her on a plane and send her back to Boston, where I would meet her at the airport. If she gets back to Detroit, I will try to keep in touch with her by telephone, and when she gets in trouble there, fly to Detroit and bring her back to Boston, if it's not too late. I'll mail this now to bring you up to date. More later. Jochen