Dear Alex,

Before I received your reply I had composed another letter
to you on this topic of family allegiances which is of much
interest and importance to me, which letter I will e-mail
separately. In answer to your question whether I have changed 
my mind about feeling excluded by the proposed Sharon gathering, 
I consider myself excluded only if I don't receive an invitation.
But think twice before you invite me, because I won't come
without Margaret, and Margaret is furious at you, angrier that
I have ever seen her, for what you have done to her child; and
Margaret's anger will ruin your party.
 
Love, Jochen